I stepped into the Zurich airport in a daze. I had just gotten off a ten-hour flight, and I had to find my way out of the airport and find the person who would take me to my new school, Schule Schloss Salem, located in Salem, Germany. I had already heard a lot about Salem. It’s the first Round Square school, and Athenian’s founder went there, but I was still stepping into an unknown land. And I barely knew German.
The first thing I learned about Salem was that there are a lot of stairs. The school is in an old castle (the German translation of the school’s name is literally Salem Castle School) and church (or Kloster), so I had to walk up 5 flights of stairs to get to my wing. This was not so fun with my luggage. Luckily, I asked some really nice people to help me find my wing, and they ended up helping me with my luggage.

I got to my wing, knocked on the door, and was met by my wing helper, a student who helps the wing mentor keep things running smoothly, coincidentally named Hannah. (It’s a pretty common German name). She taught me all about my wing. If you’ve been in the dorms at Athenian, you’ll be pretty shocked seeing the wings at Salem because they are huge. Since almost all the students here live on campus, there are more amenities. There is a whole kitchen with tables and chairs to eat at, and a living room. Every person has three roommates, so the rooms are also very big. There is a bathroom with a few stalls, and a room with the washing machine and about ten showers.
Since the wing is so big, there are weekly duties to do. Every week, a room has to do a duty, such as cleaning the kitchen or taking out the trash. If you don’t know what your duties are, the wing mentor will put a little placard outside your room. It’s in German, so if you don’t understand, you can ask someone to translate for you. If you want to figure out what it’s saying on your own, the word dienst means duty, so that will always be the last part of the placard. If it says kien dienst, it means you have no duty. If it says something else, you have some sort of duty, and either the mentor or the helper will tell you how to do your wing duty.
After I settled down and unpacked, a group of girls invited me to their room so we could hang out, and I made really good friends with them. After talking, I went to bed. A big difference between Salem and Athenian is your phone time. On school nights, your phone is taken at 9:15 AM and given back when classes end. Which is either 2:30 pm , 4 pm, or 11:30 am on Saturdays. (Yep, students have two classes on Saturdays.)
At Salem, you can tell the time through bells. The bells of the kloster or church go off hourly. Student representatives ring bells to get attention at assemblies, and there is a little bell in the wing for helpers or mentors to get the whole wing’s attention. The first time I experienced a bell was for the morning run. The morning run is a short little run at 6:45. So the wing mentor rang the bell, and we headed down five flights of stairs to do a short run outside.
After the run, you start getting ready for the school day. I started by getting my computer from the cabinet where they keep the electronics, because you get electronics that you need for school. Then I showered and got ready. You have to be at breakfast by 7:45, so make sure you keep track of time.

After my first breakfast at Salem, they took the other exchange students and me aside. First, they have you sign up for an afternoon service group, such as Red Cross, Round Square of Fire-Brigade. You can check on the school websites for all of the options. You also sign up for an afternoon activity like Photo, Painting, Choir or Band. A few of them, like Sailing and Horseback riding, you can only sign up for if you speak German. Then you choose a sport. I chose badminton, but there’s dance, general activity, etc. Then, the exchanges got taken around to get some uniform clothes and our school iPad. On your iPad, you can find your schedule on Untis and messages from teachers on Microsoft Teams. Then I headed to my first class. The classes at Salem are ninety minutes long with no break, so they can feel really long. Luckily, there’s a thirty-minute break between classes. During the first thirty-minute break, we have something called ‘Second Breakfast’, where you can go back to the dining hall if you are still hungry.
At 1:30, after your third class, there is lunch. You have to be there by 1:45. Lunch can be pretty jarring because there are a lot of little rules. The first rule is that you can’t sit down until the school speakers ring the bell and say so, which is at 1:45. If you get there early, you have to stand behind your chair. At all meals, there is assigned seating by wings, so make sure you’re at the correct table. After you sit down, one person from the table will get the lunch from the lunch ladies and bring it around, and you can start eating. Now, something that’s really weird is the period of silence. Around 5 minutes into lunch, a dong will go off, and everyone has to go silent for a couple of minutes. Then when the dong rings again, you can talk. After everyone has eaten, each table cleans up. We put uneaten food and napkins in a silver bowl, we stack up the plates and glasses, and put all the silverware in another bowl, and everyone at the table brings one of those things to the lunch ladies. We also wipe down the tables if there is a mess. Then we get dessert. There’s a little tradition to put your finger on your nose, and the last person without their finger has to take the dessert to the lunch ladies. After that, you either have another class or you are done for the day. If you have afternoon activities, you go to those, and if you don’t, you have some free time.
The most popular thing to do after school is to go to the grocery store. The two in the town of Salem are called Netto and Edeka. It takes 15 minutes to walk to Netto and walking to Edeka takes about 30 minutes. You can also bike if someone lets you borrow their bike. So you can buy a bunch of yummy snacks! On campus, there’s also something called Torkel, which is a cute little room in the castle where, starting at 3:30, you can get cakes, coffee, and hot chocolate, which is really relaxing when it rains or snows. If you go off campus, make sure you sign out. You can do this on a sheet of paper at the front of the wing. If you don’t know where it is, you can always ask. You also need to make sure you are back before 5:30, because from 5:30 to 6:30 there’s silent study time. Then from 6:30-9:15, there is another free period where you either have an activity or free time. You can go shopping during this time or go to dinner.
Dinner is a bit different from the other meals, but it still has its own unique rules. You don’t need to wear a uniform, but your outfit needs to cover your shoulders and stomach, and you need to wear jeans. No sweats or hoodies. You can sit at any table you want, and you can bring your phone with you as long as you don’t use it. Then we go to bed, and the day repeats.
As I’m writing this, I have about a week and a half left here at Salem, and I’m reflecting back on all of my experiences. I think some of my best days happened when I was spending time with new friends, such as when my friends and I went to Schlossee, a lake by my school, on May Day, since we had the day off. We all made a snack and had a picnic of all our food, and we hung out, swam, and played games by the lake. I’ve also really enjoyed going to Edeka or Netto with friends.

Being an exchange student means you also have opportunities to explore Germany and Europe at large, so any day I went off campus to go to Konstanz or Zurich was always super cool. Like anyone on exchange, I totally struggled with homesickness and feeling out of place. However, unlike how most people feel homesick their first couple of days on exchange, the last week or so was when I was feeling the most homesick and out of place. I think it was because, as the weeks went on, I knew more and more what to expect and began to miss California and a place where it felt like there was always something to do.
If you go to Salem or Germany as a whole, there are a few differences that you should know about. In Germany, there’s less emphasis on small talk and more on genuine connection. Small talk can sometimes come across as a bit disingenuous. But a big misconception I see is that people think Germans as a whole are mean. I’ve had small encounters with a few people in Netto, Edeka, or the town of Salem as a whole. People are always willing to help you with anything you may need. Additionally, since the drinking age in Germany is 16, you may be more exposed to drinking and smoking than at Athenian, but it’s not a problem at Salem, since if students drink, they get punished and there are breathalyzer tests often.

I do not regret going on an exchange at all, and I think everyone should go. It’s a way to interact with people you normally wouldn’t, and you learn so much about yourself. At Salem, there are a lot of times allotted for silence, and being at Salem, I learned how much I valued silence. In California specifically, everything is fairly loud, and there’s always a lot going on, so it was a change being in the silent countryside because the silence helped me notice the little things. I was able to take in the world around me and appreciate it so much more.
If you are going on an exchange, say hi to as many people as possible and fully appreciate where you are. Finally, I’ll teach you the most important German sentence, and that’s what you say when you go out to Edeka or Netto. Start with Halo, the cashier will scan your stuff, give you your total and when you are leaving, you should say Tschüss, Danke! If you can say that and you have fun at Salem, you’ll be good to go.






























